Times Do Get Rough.

Being a mother times do get rough.

Some people think it's so easy to look after a child, have a spotless house and look perfect. 
truth is, it's not.

It's hard work. 

Every mother has the days where their child won't settle or go down for a nap, is clingy all day, cries all day, isn't well and so on.

which makes even getting ready to go out sometimes in the morning.
I know when Samuel is having a bad day, it takes me FOREVER to just do simple things. 

People without children think that when they have a child, their partner is gonna go out working, while they're working they'll have themselves all dressed, looking lovely, their baby will be in a nice outfit, the house will be clean and tidy and dinner will be on the table when their partner comes home. 

that is so not true! 

Sometimes I have lazy days, sometimes I don't get dressed and stay in my pyjamas all day, sometimes I let my hair get greasy, sometimes I don't always have make-up on my face, sometimes Samuels in a baby grow all day too, sometimes my house is a tip, sometimes I let the washing pile up, sometimes I don't wash up for a night, sometimes I haven't got tea ready until late. there's always something.

No mother always looks perfect, always has their child ready on time, always has tea on the table for their partner when they're home, no mother always has a tidy house.

No mother is perfect.